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The two hidden gems I found on my last visit to Calgary. Calgary is definitely smaller and quieter than my hometown of Toronto but I manage to find some great little stores full of fabulous things. The first shop I wandered into was Kismet. The word “kismet” can be found in a number of languages – Turkish, Urdu, Hindi, and Persian to name a few – and it means “fate”. Fate is synonymous with destiny, but also implies change and a power impossible to resist. At its inception, Kismet was an import-based store getting much of its chic and somewhat funky inventory from the far and Middle East. As time went by, the shop evolved into a more up-scale high fashion boutique offering brand-name fashions from about 60 clothing lines and independent designers from around the world. I was super excited to find two of my favourite lines dish jeans and nougat, available in this chic boutique and that my fate lead me there.

My next find was Rubaiyat, a store that looked more like an outdoor garden decor store than a treasure trove of quality handcrafts from the windows I’m so happy that my curiosity forced me to take a peak because I spent close to 3 hours in the store gawking at all the beautiful things. This distinctive 17 Ave gallery and retailer carries imported artifacts and crafts from Africa and Asia, as well as ornate jewelery, art glass and home accessories by local, regional and international designers. Some of my favourite lines that they carry are Aurora Lopez, Me & Ro, Jeanine Payer and Satya Jewelry. It’s like I always say step into stores that may not be all that appealing or isn’t quite your taste because you’d be surprised what you can find. If your visiting Calgary and love to discover new and beautiful things these two shops are a must-see.

I truly believe that confidence is created when we each truly express love for ourselves. A love that is pure, honest and unshakeable. Christine Arylo is a speaker, author, coach, woman, founder of the Self Love Studio and the force behind Madly in Love with ME™ a self-love movement. This incredible movement was created to raise the awareness of self-love among women and girls around the world because “there is nothing more beautiful, powerful or free than a woman who truly loves herself!”  ~ Christine Arylo.

Best known as an inspirational catalyst for women and girls everywhere, daring, inspiring and guiding them to be, love and live their REAL MEs… instead of the images they often find themselves trying to live into. I had the great honour to ask Christine some intimate questions.

1.       What is your personal definition of Faith?

Faith is what makes things possible, not easy. It’s your deep deep belief, and I am talking deep, that no matter what happens you will be okay. It’s your deep trust that there is something bigger at work, supporting and guiding you. It has nothing to do with religion and everything to do with believing that you are ultimately taken care of. Faith is one of my top three values, and without it I could do none of what I do. I am constantly amazed at how deep my faith goes and how much it is tested. When I heard a voice say to me, “You go out and inspire women to love themselves, Christine!.” It was faith that got me to quit my corporate job and start a self-love movement. Without faith I would still me standing still trying to figure out what that actually meant.

2.       What are your secrets to Authentic Style?

Know who you are and express her without apology.  First you have to really know who you are underneath all the conditioning and the fear we’ve all picked up along the way. What are your unique gifts? Your dreams? What makes you come alive? What are the words your soul embodies? And then you have to have the courage to express her without caring what anyone else thinks. To be willing to stand in the middle of the world and be totally different, say what others would never say but that lives in your heart. Too many people live trapped inside themselves. You owe it to yourself to liberate the girl and woman that lives inside you!

3.       How would you define the Style of your work?

Real with heart. Playful whimsy. And spirited passion. For too long self-love has been reserved for therapy rooms and spiritual circles. My goal is to make self-love hot, hip and hers for every woman and girl, and to do so in a way that makes it really tangible about what self love is, and how one goes about getting and keeping it.

4.       What are the items in your life that you absolutely couldn’t live without?

Faith. Magic. Freedom. and Love.

5.       What are your newest obsessions? This may sound a little weird, but I am obsessed with adrenal glands!

No I am not a doctor, but I am hooked on learning more about the silent diseases related to the exhaustion of our adrenal glands. Over 80% of women today have adrenal glands that are exhausted and they are headed toward major adrenal gland fatigue which leads to thyroid disease, auto immune disease, hair loss, weight gain, and more. Many women have no idea that they are living with their adrenals on overdrive, and they live that way for years to their bodies literally shut down. Most women don’t even know what adrenal gland fatigue is. I’ll be doing an entire series on Self Love Studio in the spring interviewing women who have had this, women who help women through it. 4 out of 5 women is a lot of women, and if you are reading this, chances are that you are one of those women.

6.       Do you have any exciting news you’d like to share with us?

This February 13th is the second year of the international day of self-love, Madly in Love with ME™ Day. And I am SO excited that five cities across the US are having Self Luv-apaloozas, events on that day that women can attend and fall madly in love with themselves – San Francisco, Chicago, Orlando, Detroit, and San Diego. More and more women are also having their own events, which you can do by downloading the free Madly in Love with Me Kit from www.madlyinlovewithme.com It makes my heart all happy to see women and girls saying YES to falling in love with themselves!

Join the movement, express the love you have for yourself as a human, as an individual and most importantly as a women. Because that kind of love transforms, it sends a positive message and it allows change to happen in a natural organic way. Want to get involved? Go to the website and download the Madly in Love with ME™ KIT, participate in the video dare or write your very own Madly in Love with ME™ Manifesta. Come back on Friday and read my personal Madly in Love with ME™ Manifesta and my story of self-love.

The Madly in Love with ME™ Manifesta

Our vision for what the world looks like when a woman truly loves herself.

We believe that every woman has the right to fall madly in love with herself. To be so in love with who she is, to so deeply honor her body, mind and spirit that every choice she makes reflects that same deep honoring. That she is not only entitled to love herself, she is empowered to love herself simply because she is.

Toronto model Stacey McKenzie has walked the runway for international design sensations Alexander McQueen, Christian Lacroix, and Jean-Paul Gaultier. It was a tough road to those glorious runways, however, and Stacey suffered countless rejections on her way up, including one in which a model agent took one look at her book and burst out laughing, inviting his cohorts to join in the fun…all right in front of Stacey.

Walk This Way Workshops is Stacey’s effort to help other girls and women bolster their self-esteem while providing the tools that will lead to a successful modelling career:

“I promised I would use all my expertise and advice to help model hopefuls make it to the next level. That’s where this workshop comes from,” Stacey said at the Spoke Club last weekend where she presented real-life examples of various genres of modelling including high fashion (the typical tall, slim model), plus size, commercial, body parts (hands and feet, for instance) and lingerie. Stacey was adamant that high fashion is only one small avenue into modelling and never to force yourself to embody those proportions if they are not naturally yours. Cory, a featured model agent, concurred:

“We don’t tell people to lose weight. If you’re naturally meant to be a (high fashion) model, great; if you’re not, don’t fight it.” Stacey added: “Find another niche; find another avenue.”

The audience consisted of both aspiring models and curious onlookers: Alannah Verneuil won her spot in the workshop after entering a contest in Verve Girl magazine on why she deserves the opportunity. At 5′1″ she fears height may be an impediment to her desired career. She no doubt benefitted from Stacey’s assuring words: “You have to find your niche. Technically, anybody could be a model.” Tonika, who runs a hip-hop feminist collective called The Medina, was fulfilling her new year’s resolution to “be more adventurous and step outside the safety zone.”

Stacey encouraged her pupils to stay true to themselves: “It’s important to have confidence. I wouldn’t have what I have if I didn’t love and accept myself. Modelling is a cut-throat business so it’s important for you to love and OWN who you are.”

That’s sound advice we can all use.

Read more on Stacey’s workshop here.

Feature Writer
Laura Connell
For Those About To Shop

Many people mistakenly believe fashion is not for them. They may despise the industry for imposing unrealistic beauty ideals, or feel intimidated by the apparent glamour: Vogue editor Anna Wintour believes a fear of being wrong-footed in their style choices drives some to poke fun at fashion; like outsiders who wish they could be part of an elite club.

Ben Barry, a Canadian model agent who has gained world renown for representing models of all ages, sizes, races and abilities, is challenging the notion of exclusivity through his success at getting a diverse array of models onto the runways:

I believe fashion belongs to all of us. Fashion allows us to express our personality, moods, and desires; it can allow us to play and experiment with different looks and attitudes; and it allows us to appreciate craftsmanship and artistic vision. While all of us might not be in the fashion industry, we all have a role to play in helping create authentic images. We can support brands and magazines with our dollar. We can still play a role by changing how we think and speak about beauty each day. We can actively deconstruct the artifice of fashion images by picking them apart with our kids and friends. We can shift the dominant oppressive definition of beauty by calling our friends non-physical attributes beautiful –their laugh, heart, and mind.

Ben is at the forefront of a movement that says the aspirational can also be attainable. Instead of promoting impossible images in magazines and on runways, fashion professionals can create looks that are achievable:

When we showcase diversity in fashion, we have to remember it is fashion; diverse models should have the same glamour and artistry as the other models. Diverse images are aspirational, but they are also attainable and honest. A woman can actually look like the model, achieve her look, if she too got her hair and make-up done and put on a similar outfit. And today’s world is about authenticity; artifice feels very five years ago.

Fashion is meant to be fun and playful. It is a way for us to express our authentic selves in a way that feels good to us. Regardless of shape or size, we need to dress in a way that flatters our physicality, and we should do so within budget. Fashion is indeed for all of us: the key is showcasing on the outside all the beauty that resides within.

*You can read the Ben Barry interview in its entirety on Feature Writer Laura Kim Connell’s blog: For Those About to Shop

I meet the awe-inspiring Danielle LaPorte in 2007 when I heard her speak at the Ladies Who Launch Live event here in Toronto. I remember it very clearly because it lit a fire under my ass to just START. I had been so moved by her words and struck by her authenticity that I decided to make a change.

I knew I wanted to be in business for myself and had been working on my business plan for two years at that point but really didn’t take any formal action. I made a decision that day, the best decision I’ve made in my lifetime – I decided to live a more authentic life because really what else is there? I’m living a life that I’m passionate about, a life that I love and a life that makes my heart sing and my stomach flutter almost everyday.

I’ve heard Danielle speak on several occasions and have yet to walk away with nothing. I’m constantly elevated to a new level and for that I’m thankful. It’s not surprising to me that after lighting a fire under my ass in 2007 that Danielle launched Fire Starter Sessions along with White Hot Truth. I’m an avid follower of Danielle’s work and was excited at the opportunity – I quickly signed up with anticipation. What I remember most from our session in February was “everything is progress”. I am extremely excited to have the opportunity to profile Danielle and her raw, pure and authentic style.

Danielle LaPorte is the outspoken creator of WhiteHotTruth.com, which has been called “the best place on-line for kick-ass spirituality.” An inspirational speaker, she has been featured in Elle, Body + Soul, Vogue Australia, Better Homes & Gardens, Globe & Mail, The National Post, The Huffington Post, Entertainment Tonight, and numerous talk shows, and is a regular commentator on the national CBC TV show, Connect With Mark Kelley.

Danielle is the former director of a Washington-DC think tank where she managed a team of analysts to think big thoughts about future global trends. As a strategic and intuitive business advisor, Danielle works one-on-one with entrepreneurs who want to rock their career while making a difference in the world. From CEOs to start ups, social media stars to designers, her signature Fire Starter Sessions have been known to ignite new business models, new revenue streams, and…new definitions of success.

Photo Credits: Anastasia Photography

She is the lead author of Style Statement: Live By Your Own Design, and recently launched her own stationery line.

S: What are your secrets to Authentic Style?

D: I firmly, or should I say, faithfully, believe that authenticity is magnetic, so “showing up” as your true self attracts to you what you truly want. That means, in terms of fashion, you need to feel good. And sometimes feeling good has little to do with trends, or what we’re told are the style rules.

Know what you love and why you love it. Know how it makes you feel when you wear it. Cheap is expensive in the long run – don’t comprise. Choose “amazing” over “it’ll do.” And know that amazing can mean jeans and flip flops, or a loud animal print – it’s up to you.

I feel best in quiet colours – mostly mochas, taupes, ivory, dark browns, with a kiss of drama in a big ring or dark eyeliner, or kickin’ boots. No pattern, no black, no noise.

S: How would you define the Style of your work?

D: ruthless compassion. laser focus. very private bleeding heart. results obsessed. original. deep listening. highly, intensely practical.

S: What are the items in your closet that you couldn’t live without?

D: I’m currently rocking my snake skin patterned leggings from H& M – which my 5 year old son picked out for me. The brown cowboy boots I picked up in Santa Fe. My serape from Mexico. Toques – I have about a dozen, I live in knit hats. I have an ivory linen coat from Obakki that is a total treasure.

S: What are your newest obsessions?

D: I’m infatuated with my hair right now. I had dreadlocks for years and went through the very long and arduous process of combing them out (yes, it can be done.) Now I have very long, very straight, very happy hair and I can’t stop running my fingers through it. In fact, I’m thinking of inviting strangers to do the same. In keeping with that, I’ve just discovered Moroccan Oil and it’s magical.

I’m also obsessed with a great gold filigree ring I picked up in NYC this fall. It’s actually from Juicy Couture – never would have thought any Juicy would work for me, but it’s a stunning East Indian replica and I love it with just about everything.

S: Do you have any exciting news you’d like to share with us?

D: 2010 will be the year of innovative, divine, practical content from me and some stellar collaborators. Off the charts exiting. For now, you can catch some of it on WhiteHotTruth.com along with my new stationery line.

I learnt about the talented Cheryl Sorg through one of Danielle LaPorte’s posts on White Hot Truth. I was immediately drawn to her work. Cheryl’s art is inspired by and made from books.

“Literature, and its ability to transfix and transport, has served as the inspiration for my work for a number of years.  A humble but passionate translator, I use books to create large and elaborate constructions, forms in which a viewer can get lost, as in a well-told tale.” -Cheryl

She began by making small-scale pieces for the purpose of photographing them, the photo being the final ‘product’. Quickly she set aside the camera and focused entirely on the making of the sculptures and installations themselves, wanting to see how they would morph – expand – without the resulting photo in mind. And what an incredible masterpiece each one is.

I bought a piece that made my soul sing and the one piece of art in my home that I find myself staring at for hours on end. Madame Hanska is a diptych consisting of mirror image prints of the same negative, a photograph shot of a small construction of coned book pages, from a book on the loves of great writers. Break-taking…

S: What are your secrets to Authentic Style?

C: I’m certain I have no secrets – my style is a work in progress for sure.  I have two young children – Hugo, who is 3 1/2 and  Esmé , who is 20 months old – and motherhood has of course radically changed my day-to-day routine – and my body! – which has triggered something of a style crisis for me the past few years.  The body change is a huge challenge.  Unlike legions of women (and hubby…..) I am not a fan of big breasts.  I found it so much easier to dress myself before I had these boobs!   I am hoping, hoping, hoping that when I finally stop breastfeeding they will shrink back down to their pre-babies size (sorry hubby)!  Fingers crossed.  Anyway, this style crisis is what led me to Danielle LaPorte (through her book Style Statement: Live by Your Own Design) and then, through her, to you! ).  I had a  Fire Starter Session with Danielle and, though the talk was centered around firing up my creativity, my artwork, my ‘business’, the topic of style did come up because I was just wasting so much time and mental energy trying to decide how in the hell to dress myself in the morning and it was, frankly, getting in the way of being productive and creative.  And it was making me unhappy and stressed.  Her spot-on advice to me was to simply adopt a ‘uniform’.  ”If you had to wear the same thing every day, what would you wear?”, she asked.  I then described to her my go-to outfit – knit tee, skinny jeans, boots, scarf – and on her advice I wear some variation on that theme nearly every day since.  Freedom!

S: How would you define the Style of your work?

C: Obsessive, meditative, mesmerizing, thoughtful, thought-provoking, time and labor-intensive.  My haven. Perhaps the most distinctive thing about the style of my work is the patience it requires, patience I possess in no other area of my life whatsoever (I curse like a sailor in all manner of situations – crowds, traffic, etc.).  I cut large amounts of texts apart into tiny pieces and assemble them into all manner of configurations, a process that can take dozens to hundreds of hours depending on the piece.  And I love it – almost never tire of it.  It’s like meditation – I become calm, my breathing easing and slowing.  My work is inspired by literature, fed by my love of language, and I experience my work, get lost in it, much the same way as you would a good book.  It’s the kind of experience I create – I hope – for the viewer as well.

S: What are the items in your closet that you couldn’t live without?

C: Skinny Jeans!  My two favorite pairs right now in heavy rotation, are a super soft stretchy pair of AG’s and a funky pair of Iron Army jeans.  Oh, and a pair of grey J Brand skinny cords and a pair of charcoal Joe’s leggings.  And of course, all of these I tuck into…..

Boots!  My Frye Campus Boots are my go-to’s.  They wear like flats – super  comfortable – but their chunky sole and heel give me at least two much-needed inches, which makes me feel tall, strong, lean and powerful.  All that from a boot you say?  Yes!!  I love those boots.  I have a pair of black Frye Paige boots, too, that are also fabulous and I am as I write this very seriously eying a pair of black Frye combat-style boots with silver studs on them on E-Bay, going for a very very good price…..I’m not sure I’ll be able to resist!

SCARVES.  Very key.  My style, in short, is lean, comfortable, utilitarian, neutral colors – with a bit of flair.  More often than note a scarf provides the flair.  It is amazing what a scarf can do for the most basic of ensembles!  My favorites of the moment include a white and turquoise fringed ‘peace & love’ scarf from Lucky Brand that my sis (who is a great gift-giver) gave me and a navy blue knit scarf that is as big as a blanket but whisper-thin.

Finally, T-shirts……I love solid t-shirts made with luxe knits and unique details from lines like Splendid and Velvet.  They are almost always white, black or grey, with the occasional  wild ventures into blue or plum.

S: What are your newest obsessions?

C: A bracelet my sister just gave me for my birthday by Material Matters, a wide nylon cuff with velcro that looks like a photo of dirt, basically.  I thought it was the strangest thing when I opened the package and first laid eyes on it, and now I can’t stop wearing it!  I love it.

A heather grey Portolano wool cap I just got that keeps the chill away AND covers my bangs, which (I think) I am growing out right now.

A gold band I got in Paris earlier this year – it was given to me by a homeless man who picked it up off the sidewalk as I was walking past and gave it to me, telling me it would bring me good luck.  It turns my finger green, but it’s a lovely souvenir of Paris and I wear it and love it anyway.

Kai body lotion – so dreamy.  I wear it as my scent.  Something intoxicating, and just plain happy, about that scent!  The matching perfume spray is on my Christmas wish list (as I write this it is three days until Christmas….)

Two GORGEOUS handbags I recently got in an art-for-merchandise barter (LOVE those!).  They are from designer Lindsay Strieker – her label is called Malaika and the bags are so special, such a treat to have and carry.  One is a silver clutch with a big metal elephant head detail and the other is a black leather drawstring-style bag that can be worn cross-body (which I love) or with the strap doubled up as a shoulder bag.  I rarely (okay never….) splurge on bags, and so I am just delighted to finally own some so beautiful.

The Map as Art, a fantastic book by Katharine Harmon featuring work by a wide variety of artists, all of which either incorporates maps, is inspired by maps, or are maps of a sort.  A total feast for the eyes and mind.

Thumbprints!  My current artwork centers around the arches, loops & whorls of people’s thumbprints and it is just incredible the range and variety of patterns.  My son, future surfer dude, has a cool big-wave pattern on one of his, and one of mine has something of a yin/yang pattern.  Very cool.

S: Do you have any exciting news you’d like to share with us?

C: I couldn’t be more excited about what I’ve got going on in my work right now!  The thumbprint portraits are the most fun work I’ve done in the longest time – they are highly personal, each entirely unique, and though they take dozens of hours, the time seems to fly by after having spent years working on giant book pieces that took hundreds and hundreds of hours to create.  Most importantly, however, the thumbprint form has presented itself as a perfect way for me to do something I’ve long wanted to do, to use my art to help affect real change.  I am developing a philanthropic project titled “Under No One’s Thumb” that is aimed at raising awareness about the problem of sex trafficking and the sexual exploitation of children, and with which I am raising money for organizations working hard to fight the problem and empower survivors.  When a thumbprint portrait is commissioned, I donate 25% of the selling price to this cause, and I am also developing an exhibition and auction event with celebrity thumbprint portraits, which I am hoping will bring in a good deal of money for the cause, as well as bringing much-needed attention.  This is a project I anticipate spending most of my time on this upcoming year and I am really, really excited about it.  I have a ’causes’ page on Facebook for the project if anyone is interested in joining (http://apps.facebook.com/causes/414140), and my web site, which is updated regularly as the project progresses, has more information about the project as well.

Jodi Renee is one of my most favourite photographers (my head shot is courtesy of talented Jodi!), her work unveils the inner beauty and uniqueness of each individual she works with. Her photos tell a story and share intimate moments that often get forgotten. I asked Jodi a few questions about her style; fashion, work and everything in between.

S: What are your secrets to Authentic Style?
J: I think THE secret to Authentic Style is completely ‘within’. Funny how I can see the overflow of my values, my strengths, what I love, my career;  interwoven into all parts of my life. It’s about owning ALL  parts of ‘who we are’ and  letting that translate itself through the expression of our own personal style. I love simple, natural…pure. Less is so much more. Beauty IS confidence. We can often wear whatever, completely blazing our own trail of style if we just let ourselves go…(not giving a sh*t what anyone else thinks!)

I love quality ’staple’ items that last a long time, and go with everything (great jeans, that black dress, white shirt etc.)  Spend the money and they stand the test of time! …(sadly watching my favourite jeans get their last wears out of them after YEARS!) However even these pieces can express themselves with different cuts, textured fabrics. Anything that makes them unique. I can be really picky when it comes to shopping, looking for items that fit like they were made for me. When you look good, you feel good! Authentic Style is not so much WHAT we’re wearing but WHO we are when we’re wearing it…

S: How would you define the Style of your work?
J: Natural. Real. Authentic. MOVING. Inspiring. I’d like to think my work is more ‘unveiling’ then ‘capturing’. It’s about seeing what’s REALLY there. Love, emotions, movement, LIFE is in the stuff that we often overlook. The every day stuff that make up our lives.  Great images for me spark all the senses. Hearing the laughter, FEELING the emotions.
I  am in love with kids and their ability to be so raw, confident and in love with life.
We can learn so much from them…

S:What are the items in your closet that you couldn’t live without?

J: Couldn’t live without jeans…my Miss Sixty’s. Super comfy. Super sexy. My favourite Italian brown leather boots. Yoga and workout wear is my foundation (…thank you Lulu Lemon!) The extravagant and stunning David Yurman ring I splurged and bought in NYC.

S: What are your newest obsessions?
J: I’ve always been obsessed with GOOD eye cream! I think it’s an ESSENTIAL must! Recently fell in love with Dr. Alkaitis Organic Eye Creme – FOOD for your skin! The whole line is fabulous! BOOTS! Great heels to dress up jeans…WARM fashionable boots are a must for these crazy cold winters. Loving my new North Face Alana’s in black. Hats. So ridiculously hard to find a great hat. Notice the theme here with winter wear?…one must stay stylish surviving in -40 degree weather!

S: Do you have any exciting news you’d like to share with us?

J: Definitely some exciting projects in the works for 2010…how much time do we have?? ha. I have SO many ideas…Really refining my brand and the products I offer clients. A lot more focus on LOVE…life…and style…you’ll have to wait and see! xo

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S:What are the items in your closet that you couldn’t live without?
J: Couldn’t live without jeans…my Miss Sixty’s. Super comfy. Super sexy. My favourite Italian brown leather boots. Yoga and workout wear is my foundation (…thank you Lulu Lemon!) The extravagant and stunning David Yurman ring I splurged and bought in NYC.

S: What are your newest obsessions?
J: I’ve always been obsessed with GOOD eye cream! I think it’s an ESSENTIAL must! Recently fell in love with Dr. Alkaitis Organic Eye Creme – FOOD for your skin! The whole line is fabulous! BOOTS! Great heels to dress up jeans…WARM fashionable boots are a must for these crazy cold winters. Loving my new North Face Alana’s in black. Hats. So ridiculously hard to find a great hat. Notice the theme here with winter wear?…one must stay stylish surviving in -40 degree weather!

S: Do you have any exciting news you’d like to share with us?
J: Definitely some exciting projects in the works for 2010…how much time do we have?? ha. I have SO many ideas…Really refining my brand and the products I offer clients. A lot more focus on LOVE…life…and style…you’ll have to wait and see! xo

Kerry Irvine-Berry is an account executive in a creative agency and a mother of a beautiful son who wasn’t doing her age or body justice in the clothes she was wearing. Like many moms, Kerry took a backseat as she put the needs of everyone else before her own. She spent most of her time running around in t-shirts, jeans and runners in sizes twice her actual size. About to embark on her thirty’s Kerry approached me to help her feel vibrant and sexy again.

Kerry and I went through the entire Signature Style process, figuring out how she wanted to feel and what her style vision was for herself. Keeping in mind that both her career aspirations and role as a mom were important – creating a new wardrobe that was easy and flexible was critical. Kerry is an hourglass figure, both her shoulders and hips are close in size, with a defined waistline. Her body is already very balanced, with voluptuous curves which means we only needed to take subtle steps to keep her looking proportional.

By introducing structured jackets and v-necks in the right sizes along with patterns and a bit of color Kerry was looking put together and polished in a few quick moments. One of Kerry’s biggest style challenges was accessorizing so we picked up inexpensive yet sophisticated jewels to keep her outfits fun and playful in sexy way.

Ultimately, putting Kerry in well fitted clothes that she loved and felt amazing in, then polishing it off with accessories made her new look truly of yummy mummy status.

We may not be conscious of it but every day we are sending out our own personal message. Each of us emitting a story to the people we interact with. You are a brand (whether it’s personal or business related). Your brand is you. Every action you take, every word you speak, every impression you leave, affects how others view your brand. Laura personifies her brand Laura K Designs: Simple, Chic & Beautiful.

From the age of 15, Laura K Beauparlant (nee Kristensen) wanted to be a graphic designer. After high school, she enrolled in the renowned Graphic Design program at Oakville’s Sheridan College.

When Laura was 18 she survived a head-on collision with a drunk driver. Her left leg was shattered. She underwent 9 operations and almost lost the leg to infection. It took 2 years of intensive rehabilitation – but with determination, she eventually made a complete recovery. Laura came through the experience with a desire to live each day to the fullest. She has lived in Europe, skiied in the Austrian Alps and walked a half-marathon.

In her work for both individuals and businesses, Laura builds a relationship with her clients based on reliability, personality and quality. She listens to what her clients needs are and integrate her unmistakable style into their vision. As one recent client put it: “our invitations were obviously her and perfectly us.”

Laura’s passion for travel is a key influence in her design work and personal style. After college, she lived for several years in Copenhagen, Denmark. It was there that exposure to the simple, clean lines of the Scandinavian style first influenced the distinctive look of her work.

Over the past 5 years she has been sharing her story through the P.A.R.T.Y. Program (Prevent Alcohol and Risk-Related Trauma in Youth) where she speaks to high school students about her life-changing story. She encourages them to be safe but live their lives to the fullest. “Get out there,” she says. “Don’t just wait for life to happen.”

Recently Laura won the Speakers Gold Talent Search in Toronto. From fifty competitors, a final field of 12 was invited to give a 3-minute speech to a panel of judges and 100 guests at the landmark King Edward Hotel. Laura wowed them all with her moving story of self-determination.

From the podium and by example, Laura challenges others to be doers, not just talkers. With a presentation style that is poised, passionate and authentic above all, her abiding goal is to fulfill her namesake, Beauparlant: beautifully spoken.

I asked Laura Why do you think Style is important?
L: Style shows your personality and gives people a peak into what you are all about before you even say anything. Even if we don’t like to think we judge people by what they wear  – we all do.  Wearing clothes that fit your profession and personality can help both professionally and personally.

S: How do you think Style is connected to personal branding?

L: I think personal branding and style are really one in the same, but I am an entrepreneur so the lines are blurred!

S: What are your secrets to Authentic Style?

L: My style has evolved over the years as I’ve grown up but I always have a sense of my identity in the clothes, shoes or accessories I wear. I like to find truly unique pieces, that I can pair with the staples (jeans, black pants etc). I bought an amazing, unique jacket in Denmark about 4 years ago and every time I wear it someone tells me how much they love it. Finding pieces like this are key to my wardrobe.

S: What do you believe to be the key elements to a great personal brand?

L: I guess the key is knowing who you are and what you stand for. I know who I am and what I want out of my clothing and accessories so it becomes easy to shop when you can look at clothes and know immediately if something is right for you or not. Listen to you gut.

Montreal Designer, Lea Desrosiers is one of the rising star booths I visited last week at the One-of-a-Kind Show. Her beautiful silk constructed flowers are delicate, elegant and feminine. Her line consists of headbands, brooches and scarves and prices range from $50-$125. All handmade and hand-stitched. Lea is a wonderful spirit with a fabulous personality – visit her at booth G-48 to discover your feminine side.

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