wellness



I am writing to tell you about some of the most exciting news I’ve heard this summer…

Women are taking this summer off from trying to do, be and have it all!

That’s right, we are all so tired of working so hard and never feeling like it’s enough that we’ve decided to start a modern-day revolution, and sister super woman, you are invited!

(men, if you have an overworked superwoman in your life, share this and she’ll love you for it.)

It’s called the Summer of Self Love, and although none of us are going to run off and tie-dye our leather handbags anytime soon, I think we’d all like to stop working so hard and start enjoying more peace, love and happiness in our lives. 

It all starts this Saturday with a FREE virtual tele-call put on by three women who really know what it takes to achieve and accomplish what you want, without exhausting yourself in the process – Marci Shimoff, the queen of happiness and best-selling author of Happy for No Reason, Kris Carlson, the queen of inner peace and best-selling author of Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff for Women and Christine Arylo, the queen of self-love and author of Choosing ME before WE.

I really love what these women teach. They are real and wise, and they’ve had to learn everything first-hand, so what they teach works. They’ve lived like multi-tasking energizer bunny on steroids, exhausted themselves, and learned that life doesn’t have to be that way, when you know how to ‘be’ you life differently.

Overwhelmed & Overworked and What Can We Do About It?

Their take is that we have all been trained to be 21st Century Super Women, brought up to believe that we can do anything, so now feel pressured to do everythingperfectly… now and at the same time. Each has created powerful processes and insights that help women break the patterns that keep them working so hard… you know, powering yourself through your life… trying to hold it all together… not getting too emotional… driving yourself until you’re exhausted.

What they’ve discovered is that what we all learned in college and in our climb up the ladders has prepared us to survive in a man’s world, in a man’s way. We weren’t taught how to thrive as a woman… so woman to woman, these women are offering the best of their wisdom to women around the world so that we can achieve and accomplish what we want, without exhausting ourselves in the process. 

Click here to register for free now

Join them for an inspiring and eye-opening Saturday morning coffee-talk and get the smarts on:

  • Why women are no happier today than in the 1970s, even after all the freedoms we’ve gained
  • How to increase your personal happiness without adding to your ‘to-do’ list
  • How to stop sweating the small and big stuff
  • What Feminine Super Powers are and why it is SO important to harness them just as much (or MORE) than your “manpowers”

This knowledge is wisdom you can’t afford to live without if you ever hope to have that peace, love, happiness and freedom you work so hard to attain (that is after all why we all work so hard, isn’t it?)

Here’s to living a life where we are free to do what we love… and be happy and at peace doing it!

Faithfully,
Safina Khimani

 

P.S. If you can’t make the LIVE call, no worries… you’ll get a recording so you can listen in later. Just sign up now by clicking on this link, and you will get an audio via email on Sunday.

P.P.S. Invite the other overworked super women you love to join this Summer of Self Love Revolution. They are all invited! CLICK HERE.


Many women during their first trimester of pregnancy experience what’s commonly known as ‘morning sickness’. The discomfort of nausea and vomiting in pregnancy (NVP) can range from mild nausea (with or without vomiting) to severe vomiting which occurs throughout the day.

Although NVP is called morning sickness, you may feel symptoms  morning, afternoon or night.  The cause of NVP is unknown, but is speculated to be related to increased levels of the hormones hCG and estrogen.  Emotional factors and irregular eating habits have also been cited as possible contributors to morning sickness.

You may not be able to get rid of morning sickness altogether but you can minimize its impact through a few, simple self-help measures.  The good news is current research shows your body maybe expelling food from your system to protect your baby from potentially harmful pathogens, such as those found in undercooked meat.

Tips to reduce nausea and vomiting during pregnancy:

  • Drink plenty of fluids, 6 – 8 glasses of water daily, to maintain hydration.
  • Avoid fluids that contain caffeine or carbonation.
  • Eat a diet that is high in protein and carbohydrates, in 5 to 6 small meals daily.
  • Eat crackers throughout the day to avoid an empty stomach.
  • Pay attention to your senses; avoid noxious odours such as tobacco smoke, and tastes that may nauseate you.
  • Limit stressful events and get plenty of rest; avoid being in a hurry, especially in the morning.
  • Consider acupuncture or acupressure to assist in relieving nausea.

If you’re throwing up throughout the day this is a serious complication of pregnancy called hyperemesis gravidarum and must be managed under the close observation of your midwife or doctor.  Potential risks of this condition include: weight loss, dehydration, electrolyte imbalance, and starvation.

Adapted from: Engebretson, Joan C. & Littleton, Lynna Y. Maternal, Neonatal, and Women’s Health Nursing. Copyright 2002 by Delmar, Thomson Division Learning Inc. Albany, NY. P.433

Zahra Haji is a prenatal educator and yoga teacher in Toronto.
To learn more about prenatal yoga classes in Toronto please visit:
http://www.yogagoddess.ca/Prenatal-Yoga-Toronto.html


Exercising when you’re pregnant comes highly recommended (in an uncomplicated pregnancy) even if you were completely inactive before pregnancy .  In fact, The Canadian Guidelines for Exercise in Pregnancy and the Postpartum Period recommend that all women participate in aerobic and strength conditioning exercises as part of a healthy lifestyle during pregnancy.

Prenatal yoga is an excellent form of strength training for expectant moms because it targets key areas of a woman’s body that come into play in childbirth like the pelvic floor and hips.  Yoga postures like squats, the standing pelvic tilt and sitting meditation using kegels help prepare the cervix to open easily during the first phase of labour.

Learning to breathe is also key to a relaxed and calm labour experience.  In kundalini yoga, the breath is linked to each exercise as you inhale in one position and exhale in a counter position. For example, in a spinal twist, you would inhale as you twist left and exhale as you twist right. This breathing pattern helps keep the mind still because with each movement the mind has something to focus on.

During childbirth, the slower, deeper and more powerfully a woman can breathe the more in control she will feel of her body and mind.  The benefit of starting yoga early in pregnancy is that a woman can apply breathing techniques taught in class, such as long, deep breathing, and use the breath as an anchor during daily stress-inducing situations.  Experiencing the benefits of stress-reduction well in advance of labour helps build a woman’s confidence in her own abilities to manage the waves of sensation during labour.

Although many women are fine to begin yoga classes as soon as they find out they are pregnant, some women find the best time to start a movement program is in the second trimester, when nausea, morning sickness, and extreme fatigue have passed .

Cardio is also highly recommended during pregnancy so long as women keep their heart rate in a specified range and maintain exertion levels between fairly light to somewhat hard . Remember to always consult your health practitioner before starting a new exercise program, especially a higher impact one.

Women should stop exercising and seek medical attention if they experience any of the symptoms below :
•    Excessive shortness of breath
•    Chest pain
•    Lightheadedness, muscular weakness and feeling faint
•    Painful uterine contractions
•    Leakage of amniotic fluid
•    Vaginal bleeding

The good news is the benefits far outweigh the risks of exercising while pregnant.  Being physically active during pregnancy is extremely beneficial for a woman’s health and actually helps prevent :
•    Loss of muscular and cardiovascular fitness
•    Excessive maternal weight gain
•    Risk of gestational diabetes or pregnancy-induced hypertension
•    Development of varicose veins and deep vein thrombosis
•    Shortness of breath
•    Low back pain
•    Poor physical adjustment to the physical changes of pregnancy

So even if you’re new to fitness, pregnancy is the ideal time to commit to a practice of self nurturing like yoga and meditation.  Yoga Goddess offers a unique combination of childbirth education plus prenatal yoga and meditation helping you prepare physically, mentally and spiritually for the birth of your baby.

Zahra Haji is a prenatal educator and yoga teacher in Toronto.
To learn more about prenatal yoga classes in Toronto please visit:
http://www.yogagoddess.ca/Prenatal-Yoga-Toronto.html

———————————————————————————

[i] Joint SOGC/CSEP Clinical Practice Guideline, No. 129, June 2003, Exercise in Pregnancy and the Postpartum Period. Also available on line at: http://www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/129E-JCPG-June2003.pdf
[ii] ibid
[iii] ibid
[iv] ibid
[v] ibid


Women are rich, complex, intricate, spiritual and physical beings. Every month we cycle through four distinct goddess energies (connected to the four phases of the menstrual cycle) which give us access to unique physical, mental and emotional abilities.

From nature’s point of view the menstrual cycle is there to restore our fertility each month. What most women don’t realize is when pregnancy doesn’t occur, the hormonal changes created in our bodies create fertile ground for all kinds of unseen opportunities. When we tap into this potential we can feel more vibrant, improve our relationships, enhance our physical and spiritual wellbeing, and connect with the Divine Feminine.

In her book Red Moon, Miranda Gray shows us how to use the inner compass of our menstrual cycle to find out when we have highest access to these beautiful goddess energies. I have borrowed from Miranda’s wisdom to create Yoga Goddess’ signature Moon Goddess Yoga where I teach women how to harmonize hormonal health and play with the goddess energies.

It’s easy to find out which goddess you are most connected to based on your time of the month. Just take out your calendar and count the days – where day 1 is the first day of your period – and calculate where you are in your cycle:

Days 1 – 6: Wise-woman Goddess
Days 7 – 13: Maiden Goddess
Days 14 – 20: Mother Goddess
Days 21 – 28: Enchantress Goddess

Relax and renew. Day 1 – 7: The quiet and introverted energy of the Home-body emerges at the time of menstruation – this is your ‘moon time’, when you connect with the goddess energy of the Wise Woman. Feel the full blossoming of your inner wisdom. Get into your comfy clothes, light some candles, and take 10 minutes to breathe into your belly. Your mind will effortlessly merge into blissful meditation, your body will melt into deep relaxation, and any difficult sensations will ease off.

Go-get’em! Day 7 – 13: The Go-getter is full of energy and dynamism – she is born of the the Maiden goddess aspect our ourselves at pre-ovulation. At this time of the month, your energy is climbing, your waistline is shrinking and your aura is shining. This is a great time to call your girlfriends, get all dressed-up and and go out Sex and the City style. It’s also the perfect time to kick start a new project. You know that new health regime you’ve been thinking about? Now is the perfect time to put your running shoes on and get moving!

Be Nurturing. Day 14 – 20: Mid-cycle is when most women ovulate and it’s a natural time to connect with the supportive and caring energy of the Mother godess. Check-in with your heart – it’s likely brimming with those oh so good feelings of love. One way to express your inner Nurturer is with a delectable home cooked meal for a special someone. Feed your way into their heart and they’ll be licking their lips (and maybe your fingers.?!) in delight.

Go wild. Get creative. Day 21 – 28: After ovulation, the hormone progesterone piques and creates the perfect environment for the wild and unpredictable energy of the Enchantress goddess to come out and play. You may notice there’s a lot stirring inside you right now which makes you feel like you’re losing control – you’re not – it’s just the Wild Woman inside you who needs to channel some energy. Take charge by giving yourself a creative outlet. Painting, writing, dancing, yoga – any kind of activity that puts you in the ‘zone’ is a really good idea right now. Remember, you’re not psycho, you’re cyclical, period.

Play with the goddess energies all month long…

Love and delight,
Zahra.
www.yogagoddess.ca


If you’ve ever had a sleepless night, you know how frustrating it can be to lie in bed wide awake, mind spinning or body aching, when all you want to do is sleep.  Lucky for us, yoga can help – and you don’t even have to get out of bed to do it.

Savasana, or corpse pose is a yoga asana that you can use in bed to help calm your mind and ease physical tension.  Jon Kabat-Zinn in his best selling book Full Catastrophe Living teaches a technique called body scanning which borrows from the ancient yogic teachings.

The first step is to bring your awareness to your breath noticing each inhalation and each exhalation as it moves in and out of your nostrils.

As your mind begins to relax, you direct your breath awareness into your chest, sensing the rise and fall of your breath.

Slowly move into your abdomen, again noticing the rise and fall of your breath in your belly.

If you’re still awake at this point, begin to scan your body as you internally “look for” places of tension.  Start from your toes and work your way up slowly all the way to the crown of your head.  Use auto-suggestive phrases like: “My feet relax”, “My legs relax”, “My thighs relax”, until you’ve scanned your entire body from the tips of your toes to the top of your head.

By the time you’ve reached your torso, you’ll likely be asleep.  On the odd day where you’re still awake after your first scan, work your way back down to your toes and keep scanning body part by body part until you drift off into the land of deep sleep.

Love and delight,
Feature Writer
Zahra.

Zahra Haji is a trained and practiced yogini inspired by the Goddess Ixchel to reconnect women with the Divine Feminine. Through the wisdom of the moon, kundalini yoga and meditation, Zahra guides women to discover the rich, treasure-filled sanctuary of inner-self. Currently Zahra is a Sessional Lecturer in the University of Toronto’s Buddhism, Psychology and Mental Health Program. She offers women-centered yoga and meditation classes and retreats through her business ‘Yoga Goddess’.

For more info contact Zahra at iam@yogagoddess.ca 416-901-4032 www.yogagoddess.ca


As a self-sufficiency coach for women, I know that financial independence comes from two sources: getting control of your spending (reducing debt) and increasing your assets (investments, savings and income).  Unfortunately there are many families with household incomes in excess of $100,000 who are struggling financially because they refuse to curtail their spending.  It doesn’t matter if you’re making$30,000, $50,000 or $250,000 a year, you can have expenses that have you living paycheck to paycheck. You can’t afford your lifestyle if you can’t comfortably pay your monthly expenses. Comfortably in my book means that you’re consistently paying your bills on time and that you have money left over to put into a savings or investment account.

I’m not an advocate of deprivation, I enjoy my lattes and my manicures.  I also want to be able to take my son out for a burger or some other after school treat without planning weeks in advance.  However to afford those luxuries I’ve learned to cut back in areas that are less critical to my family’a happiness.  Today for instance I’m reviewing my household bills and usage to see where I can make reductions.  Already I saved a few bucks on my Netflix account and on my DirectTV bill.

Two years ago Ramit Sethi, author of the book, I Will Teach You To Be Rich had a month of posts titled, “Save $1,000 in 30 Days.”  His posts are well worth reviewing. You may not implement all 30, but I’m sure that even if you saved $100 or 200 this month it would be well worth your time.

Ramit Sethi’s Full list of tips
Tip #1: Pack lunches for the rest of the week
Tip #2: Turn your thermostat down 3 degrees
Tip #3: Sell something on eBay today
Tip #4: Involve your friends in your savings challenge
Tip #5: Optimize your cellphone bill
Tip #6: Use gas prices to become your own hedge fund
Tip #7: Create a “No Spending” day once a week
Tip #8: Implement the A La Carte Method
Tip #9: Only buy new things when replacing something old
Tip #10: Use the free rewards from your credit card, car insurance, and workplace
Tip #11: Never pay full retail price for clothes or eyeglasses again
Tip #12: How I’m saving $2,000+ on eating out in 2009
Tip #13: How to negotiate your car insurance
Tip #14: Use self-persuasion to share how much you’ve saved so far
Tip #15: Forget going to a bar — ask people over for dinner
Tip #16: Cancel any large purchase this month
Tip #17: Buy generic for the stuff you don’t care about
Tip #18: No Christmas gifts this year
Tip #19: Save Money, Eat Well and Look Hot in Less Than an Hour
Tip #20: Change the date of Christmas
Tip #21: Save thousands by pre-paying your debt
Tip #22: Analyze your progress in the 30 Day Challenge (plus, see how I’m doing)
Tip #23: Go cash only for 15 to 30 days
Tip #24: Cut your commute expenses by 40%
Tip #25: Earn more money using your God-given skills
Tip #26: Gardender? Cleaning lady? DIY instead
Tip #27: Use barriers to prevent yourself from spending money
Tip #28: Use price-protection guarantees to always get the lowest price (travel, retail)
Tip #29: Stop being a loser and spend money to save money
Tip #30: How I’m saving $25,000+ in 2009

Yvonne Bynoe, Feature Writer

P.S. If you enjoyed this post today, do me a favor and share it on Twitter, Facebook, Digg, or any of the other sites you see below as well. And I’d love to get your feedback… What do you think? Also don’t forget to download my FREE report: 5 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR LIFE NOW and STOP BEING A GUILTY, STRESSED OUT WORKING MOTHER that can be found at SophisticatedWomanandMama.com

Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.